Sexual Dysfunction & Sex Therapy Diagnostic Session
(for one or both of you)

In order to understand Sexual Dysfunction, we need to look back into the past. What went into that template which crystalized at puberty? Predisposing matters come from the past and are already set in place and exist. We can’t change the past. They are historical. Knowing and better understanding them, however, enhances and enables you to go after them and effect change into your future.

The Diagnosis session will include guidance on what you can do differently (perhaps with help) to achieve better outcomes in the sexual activities of the couple. Particularly, how to change your cognition (your thinking and expectation of failure – in an anticipatory – perhaps pre-emptive way); so that you also change the practices for with better outcomes.

The brain experiences new behaviour patterns and outcomes, which creates new neural pathways. It will gradually latch onto and want to do more of the repeated good outcome behaviours. Past negative practices become changed by new positive ones and with enticements incorporated – such as treats and rewards – the brain wants more positive outcomes; and desire less negative outcomes, with the shame and negative affect that goes with failures and dissatisfaction.

Maybe a little bit of help is needed?

You have little hope of changing what you cannot see – because they live in the unconscious. The Sexual Dysfunction Diagnosis Session moves the issues from the unconscious to the conscious, enhancing your ability to affect them. Maybe a little bit of help is needed. Want to know more and better understand?

Take back control. Become the best that you can be with this life affecting and positive life changing Sexual Dysfunction Diagnosis Session.

For Individuals within a couple’s partnership or Marriage the Diagnosis Session will usually take the form of extensive history Taking – where you are asked various questions in order to gain knowledge and information of your development from childhood to the present. That profile building, holds the keys to why you do what you do.

This Psycho-Educational journey contained in the Sexual Dysfunction Diagnosis Session, will then equip you with insights and understanding, as the unconscious issues are moved into the conscious, enabling you to make informed choices about possible change; change that can better reflect the future that you want for yourself.

It is very usual and indeed expected (that just like the hundreds of clients for whom we have provided a Diagnosis) you too will leave with significant clarity. Clarity about the key issues which for many years have been blighting the quality of your sex life and you living life to the full.

We certainly expect you to leave with many ‘aha’ moments and insights, even if “what do I now do next” is the challenge. Those “Eureka” insights are then choices you can make as to whether you do anything further after the Diagnostic session. The Diagnosis Session will provide a clear path towards fulfilling your goals, dreams and aspiration.

What can you expect by the end of the Diagnostic Session?

  • Help you to better understand the issues which have been affecting your quality of life
  • Identify and clarify your current negative affects
  • Better understand how your past has its tentacles in your present and is affecting your future
  • Identify a road-map what you can do to align your present with your desired future – Convergence
  • Create immediate actionable steps toward resolving the issues and your vision, goal and desire
  • Strategize around what steps you could usefully take to resolve them – should you be so inclined
  • Enhancing your capacity and ability to be the best that you can be

Each set of Diagnostic Sessions is booked as 5 x 50 minute sessions using secure encrypted webcam.

Postponement means another day in mediocracy

This will undoubtedly be a life changing experience. You know that you have needed and wanted to take a step like this in the past and have not quite known what to do and have postponed it repeatedly.

“Kairos” means “Your appointed time”. There comes a time in all our lives when the time and circumstance is exactly right. The time is exactly right – NOW. Don’t postpone again. Take action.

Two roads diverged in a wood, and 
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference
– Robert Frost.

If you have any questions in the meantime, please feel free to message The Kairos Centre.